Planning a trip with someone who has Alzheimer’s or other dementia? Here are some suggestions:

• Consider the person’s stage of dementia. As a caregiver, you know your family member’s capabilities. Trust your judgment and experience. Try to gear your expectations and plans to your family member’s skills. Plan ahead, anticipating delays, changes in schedules, weather, and your family member’s needs.

• Consider any physical impairments that might affect travel. How far can your family member walk? If visually impaired, you will need to provide your arm as a guide or escort. If your family member is hearing impaired, be sure their hearing aid is turned on to an appropriate volume and bring extra batteries.

• Keep your plans simple. Avoid fast paced schedules or connecting flights. The fewer the changes, the less likely your family member will become agitated.

• Bathrooms. Schedule extra bathroom stops and consider protective briefs. Enlist the help of a friend or family member (who is the same sex as the person with AD) to accompany you to the airport or bus station to assist with bathroom needs.

• Pack lightly. It will be important for you to have a hand free to escort your family member. If you have packages or need several suitcases, consider shipping them in advance.

• Consider travel time. How long can the individual sit in one place? Does your family member need to roam? Does your family member function better at certain times of the day?

• Never send the patient alone on a plane, especially with a connecting flight or on a bus with multiple stops. Flight attendants and customer service representatives are not responsible for watching your family member.

• Alert customer representatives of your special needs. Alert hotel staff if wandering is a problem. Ask restaurant staff what appetizers and meals can be prepared quickly and if they could put a rush on your meal. If flying, ask to board the plane early to avoid rushing, however, do not give them cause for alarm — airlines can deny seating for someone they believe will be disruptive to the flight.

• Food! Glorious food! Schedule plenty of breaks and time out for snacks. Try to maintain meal times.

• Bring along familiar activities. Pack a few magazines, a deck of cards, a wallet or purse to rummage through, or other activities that your family member enjoys at home. This will help to distract them from the change in environment and help to calm them by providing familiar events.

• Be consumer savvy. Some airlines may provide a special rate for an escort for disabled person. Be sure to inquire about these special deals.

• Carry emergency contacts and phone number with you and on your family member.

Courtesy Greater Pittsburg Chapter